If I marry you, there are going to be some ground rules.
要我嫁给你,有一些基本前提。
Give a dog a bad name and hang him.
欲加之罪,何患无词。
I am sorry that you have a disagreement with your father. Personally, I think it is important to follow your interests and your abilities, and it sounds as though you have plenty of both of these already.